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How To Pick Up Women: The “Obsession Method” & More…

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man and woman in nightclubIf you want to pick up a woman, you have to remember that while she obviously has free will to say yes or no to you, she is also somewhat incapable of going against what we will refer to as her biological “programming”. This programming is what tells her which guys she should go out with, and it’s based on millions of years of evolution, so it’s pretty strong stuff.

So while it may look like women are more complex and individual than males, thats not necessarily the case. All women respond to the same biological and psychological triggers. It’s all about how you approach her and how you use certain actions and gestures to attract her attention.

The first thing to do is to make her feel special. If you’re nervous, it will come across as if you’re trying too hard, and she’ll likely end the conversation on a sour note. When you are feeling nervous on the inside, just try to remember to remain calm on the outside, and be sure to treat her with respect and a smile. The more you respect her, the more she’ll be interested in you. Besides, you’ll be much more attractive to a girl if you show her you’re interested in her.

If you’re going to pick up a girl, be confident and genuine. Everybody always says “be yourself and don’t worry if she rejects you”, and this is actually good advice. Rejection will happen. It’s ok, there’s plenty of fish in the sea. So, don’t stress out about it as that can interfere with making a good impression. You’ve got to think positive and know in your heart that soon or later you’ll end up with a woman you can spend the rest of your life with!

What Is The Obsession Method?

The Obsession Method is a program created by a dating coach named Kate Spring, that shows you how to attract women and even get them obsessed over you simply by speaking to them in a special “encrypted language” that speaks to her biological programming like we discussed above. You can read all about The Obsession Method here.

While there are certainly many effective ways to pick up a woman that don’t involve the Obsession Method, it is certainly worthwhile to have this method up your sleeve. Furthermore all of the additional tips I’m sharing with you in this post can be related to this method as it is rather all encompassing. I’d even go so far as to say that all good dating advice for men has elements of this method within them.

Manage Your Demeanor

When picking up a woman, you should aim to be somewhere between having a serious demeanor and a completely unserious one, so that you seem fun and chill, but not like a complete goofball. Do not be shy, and don’t overdo it. It’s important to make a good impression, and it will make her feel good too. You can also give her a compliment or two. This will make her feel better about herself.

Make Her Feel Special

It’s also important to try to make her feel special by doing things like dressing smartly and showing your genuine interest. This bit is covered extensively in Kate’s Obsession Method – it’s very important for you to make her feel comfortable and confident in your presence. So if you want to pick up a woman, make her feel comfortable with you.

Give Her Your Full Attention

During the conversation, you should not talk about anything else. The focus should be on the girl’s appearance and her personality. If you tell he that she looks good, she will notice it. If she’s nervous, she might reject you, so don’t make her feel uncomfortable, as this will make her want to pick someone else to spend her time with.

Don’t be afraid to ignore other people, including her friends. This will give her the impression that you’re only interested in her, and not any other women that are in the area. She might have a lot of friends that have similar interests, and want to interject themselves into your conversation, so don’t be afraid to ignore them, just don’t be rude about it. While you are talking with a woman, you should never interrupt her. It will make her feel uncomfortable, and it might even turn her off.

Following these tips you will make a woman feel very comfortable in your presence and greatly increase the likelihood that you will be able to seal the deal!

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The Curious Case Of Erectile Dysfunction

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couple with edListen guys, erectile dysfunction, otherwise known as ED or impotence is a very serious problem for a lot of us. This is especially true as we get older.

This is a problem shared by millions of men in the US alone, probably a half a billion or so worldwide by my calculations… But shockingly, many guys who are suffering with ED are oblivious to the fact that they actually can receive treatment for this condition.

I won’t get too deep into the science of ED, but we all know the symptoms, which is really just one symptom. It occurs when you have difficulties achieving or sustaining an erection during sexual intercourse.

Common causes are mainly stress, fatigue, personal issues or drug and alcohol consumption. Long-term cases of impotence, however, are sometimes due to heart disease, obesity and diabetes.

You may be surprised when you consider some of the statistics on erectile dysfunction. Listen to this: “At the age of 40, more than 40% of men have encountered cases of their member not performing as well as it used to!”

Whoa that is a lot of guys struggling in this area…

With the growing cases of erectile dysfunction, a number of pharmaceutical medications, pumps and surgical procedures have been concocted to help with this problem; however, most men still prefer natural remedies.

While doctors recommend medication to treat erectile dysfunction, especially for older men; however, these come with multiple side effects such as nasal congestion, upset stomachs and headaches, as well as, reliance on these drugs for sexual intercourse. A lifestyle change is the best option. A standard exercise routine and proper diet can lead to stronger blood flow to the penis. Healthy lifestyle practices such as halting tobacco use and curbing alcohol consumption can lead to more sustained erections.

So what’s the deal with penis pumps?

A “penis pump” is a common tool that is used to improve the one’s chances of obtaining and maintaining an erection. Usually it’s some sort of cylinder with a pump, and when the tool is applied to the penis, it promotes blood flow by pumping air out the cylinder.

A safer route might be to take would be to ingest herbal supplements such as gingko biloba, yohimbe and saw palmetto. Most of these are packaged as tea such as Rhino Tea, commonly found in drug stores. If one is already taking medication to treat erectile dysfunction, one must consult a doctor before taking herbal supplements as the effects of the two together may jeopardize one’s health.

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For Help Getting a First Date Try Vin DiCarlo

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couple-on-beach-bwA lot of men feel sad because they have not been out on a date with a woman for many years, or ever. This is truly sad. To tell you the truth, this was my life a few years ago, very lonesome indeed. Luckily though, I found there are many men online who have come together to share tips and ideas on how impress a lady. Thank gosh for the internet. Anyways, the best guy I have found teaching dating skills is a very good chap named Vin DiCarlo creator of the Pandora’s Box, check him out if you have got the time.

Listen, scoring a date takes effort and practice. If you can’t even get the courage to ask the pretty girl you met out, your batting average will always be zero percent. Get yourself in the game, the worst she could do, aside from crush your ego, is say no.

That all being said, here are my top tips for getting a date:

TIP #1 Get Her Attention

The first step is grabbing a woman’s attention. You do not want to be just like any other guy using the same stupid cheese-ball lines. You want to stand out as a sexy man, so always avoid using any cheesy pick-up lines that you may have heard. Also be 100%  sincere with your approach. Getting her to laugh will help you get a date and a phone number. Self-deprecating humor is always an attention grabber, pull out your funniest accent or best joke to get her to laugh. Aside from telling a joke, you can compliment her about a specific detail on her outfit or her appearance. If she has a tattoo ask her about it or mention something you like about it; this will catch her attention.

TIP #2 Bring Your A-Game

It also helps that you don’t look like you haven’t showered for a couple of days. Putting on a nice sport jacket, dark jeans, and a pair of boat shoes will help improve your swag levels. Have you ever noticed that the women you want to date probably always look fresh, clean and well dressed? That’s no accident. Women know that they need to put in the time and effort to look presentable, and do so by staying up to date with their grooming, and so forth. I mean seriously, do you have any idea the amount of money that your typical 30 year old woman spend on getting her hair and nails done? It is insane. That’s why you need to do your part too, and at a minimum brush your teeth and hair and put on an outfit that you didn’t pull out of the dirty clothes hamper!

TIP #3 Be Calm, Not Pushy Or Weird

When it comes to actually setting up your first date with a woman, it is important to remember to maintain a calm and happy demeanor. During your conversation with her she will be getting a sense of what you are all about and deciding if she is interested or not. Women don’t want to make the mistake of making plans to meet up with a guy who turns out to be unstable, aggressive or have any of that kind of personality traits that could make her uncomfortable. So during your chat just remain chill, ask her some questions about herself, and as i said above try to use humor to your advantage assuming you have a half way decent sense of humor.

Pushiness as you can imagine is a huge turnoff, so if she is unsure about giving you her number or shows hesitation about meeting up for a date, make sure to keep things light. After all, you don’t want her to think that you are some kind of freak, who is going to get upset if she acts in a way that is not to your liking. If she declines your invite, that’s fine, you can’t win them all. And if you act like it is no big deal and tell her that it was nice to meet her then you may be surprised when you are walking away and she runs after you saying that she changed her mind and would like to see you again!

Of course there’s more to getting a date than what I’ve said here, but try this stuff out for starters and then try out some other stuff like Vin DiCarlo’s material later on.